50 S*x questions Christian Couples Should Answer Before And Within Marriage

By Dr. Oyindamola Oladeinde

1. Describe how the topic of s*x was perceived in your household.
2. How did you learn about s*x for the first time?
3. Did your parents pass on a positive or negative view of s*x to you? Why or why not.
4. What is your ideal way to learn more about s*x and intimacy?
5. Are there any s*xual experiences from your past you still need to heal from?
6. Are you struggling with a secret that you are embarrassed about?
7. How important is having a great s*x life to you?
8. When do you feel most comfortable sharing your raw s*x desires with me?
9. What makes you feel s*xy?
10. What place or event makes you feel s*xy?
11. What makes you look forward to having s*x with me?
12. What gets you mentally and emotionally in the mood?
13. What things do I do that turns you off?
14. How can I improve my hygiene to make myself more appealing to you.
15. Do you have any physical insecurities that can hinder your performance on bed?
16. Is our s*x life what you imagined it would be before we got married? Explain.
17. Are there any acts that you would want to share but have felt too embarrassed to share.
18. What makes you feel confident in the bedroom?
19. How many times in a week would you like to have s*x ?
20. Do you prefer morning s*x or evening s*x?
21. When you hear the word orgasm, what comes to your mind?
22. What would it take to give you better or more reliable orgasms?
23. Do you spontaneously desire s*x or do you need foreplay to get you going?
24. Describe your favorite type of foreplay.
25. What is your favorite place for me to stroke you?
26. What s*xual acts do you consider off limits? What are the off limits?
27. Do you think great s*x always ends with an orgasm? Why or why not.
28. Do you ever fantasize about someone else while making love with me? If yes, do you think that’s good for our relationship?
29. How can we make our bedroom more of s*xual oasis?
30. Describe the perfect environment to get you mentally in the mood.
31. Do you prefer giving me oral s*x or receiving oral s*x from me?
32. Do I show physical affection for you?
33. Do you feel loved by me on a daily basis? If not, why not?
34. What erotic act would you like us to do together?
35. What is your favorite type of kissing?
36. Do we kiss enough?
37. What is your favorite s*x position?
38. What are your favorite dirty texts to get from me?
39. What is the difference between s*x and intimacy?
40. What do you think about hotel dates (going to a hotel to have s*x)?
41. How can we increase the trust in our relationship to foster a better foundation for intimacy?
42. What do you want me to wear more or less during the day?
43. What do you want me to wear more or less during bed time?
44. Do you like playing rough in bed?
45. What s*xual boundaries do you think we should have in marriage
46. Do you enjoy having my tongue on your body? If so, where are your favorite places for me to lick?
47. How can I help you feel completely safe and free mentally, emotionally and physically
48. Do you believe s*x is beautiful and more honoring within marriage? Why or why not
49. In what ways would you like us to grow in our relationships
50. Would you like to make love with me right now?

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